A few months ago, I learned something that completely changed my perspective on my self and my relationships. I completed a Myers-Briggs personality assessment and learned that I’m an INTJ. (More on what that means in a minute.) I had taken this test many years ago, but I struggled with it at the time. I wondered, “Should my answers reflect how others see me or how I see myself?” I fumbled my way through the test, but the results didn’t really resonate with me. I chalked it up to a waste of time, and never thought much about it again. Read more…